Saturday, August 20, 2011

(Late Entry) VT Moment: July 2011

It's finally here!  Sister Nancy S. (Visiting Teaching Supervisor) was so nice to recall her VT Moment talk from last month and wrote it up for us to enjoy again ... or if you missed her presentation, then here it is for you to read.

Visiting Teaching Moment, 7/10/11, given by Sister Nancy S.:

Because it's July and we celebrate our pioneers, I thought I'd use a story from my family history to spotlight the spirit of visiting teaching.

"On January 16, 1843, we set sail from Liverpool, and as we saw the land slowly disappear in the distance, we sang one of the songs of Zion and cheered each other with sympathizing words.  We were the first British emigrant company of the season and numbered two hundred and twelve souls.  We had a pleasant voyage across the Atlantic, during which time, just before reaching the American shore, Mary gave birth to a little son, whom we named William Matthews Layton.  After sailing for seven weeks and three days, we arrived at New Orleans and were transferred to the steamer Amaranth in which we sailed up the Mississippi River.  Our baby died before we reached St. Louis, being only about six weeks old.  He was buried on shore.  We arrived at St Louis March 29, 1843. 

We were now transferred from the steamer to a barge, and here we had to stay for two weeks waiting for the ice to break up on the river.  My wife was sick and delicate and the weather was raw and chilly, but we consoled ourselves with the Lord's promise and thanked Him that we were so near our journey's end.  My money having given out, I was obliged to borrow seven dollars of Prime Coleman.  About the seventh or eight of April a small steamer fastened a cable on our barge and tugged us up the river to Nauvoo, where we arrived one very cold morning, April 12.  How rejoiced we were when we were safely across!  And there stood our prophet to welcome us!  As he heartily grasped our hands, the fervently spoken words, "God Bless You" sank deep in our hearts, giving us a feeling of peace such as we had never known before.

The saints had congregated in front of the old post office building to gladly welcome us to this land and the beautiful city of Nauvoo, where the hospitalities of their homes were kindly offered us.  Brother Philemon C. Merrill took my wife and me home with him, his wife Cyrena gave me the first cup of milk I had in Nauvoo.  On the following day the Prophet Joseph called to see us and blessed us.  After staying with Brother and sister Merrill a few days, my wife who was still sick, and I went home with Brother and Sister Jacob Butterfield." (from the autobiography of Christopher Layton)

Though at that time there was no formal visiting teaching program, still "charity never faileth" prevailed in the homes of Sisters Merrill and Butterfield, who apparently didn't hesitate to take in the penniless, dirty, sick, Mary and Christopher Layton.  Christopher in later years said he would never forget their kindness as long as he lived. 

May we in our generation adapt the Relief Society theme to our circumstances and let it inform our visiting teaching is my prayer, in the name of Jesus Christ, Amen.

Sister Nancy S.

Sunday, August 14, 2011

Creative Caring

Hello Visiting Teachers!  It's been a while, our apologies ... Jinky had a rough July.  Anyway, the July and August VT Moments are running late in being posted, but it will come so look for that next week.  Also, running late is the announcements of our Monthly VT Prize Giveaway ... post coming soon.  In the meantime, the following is a list of ideas for things to do for the sisters you visit teach.  Note that some words are abbreviated (there was a lot to type) so please don't think that Sister Oyler is a bad writer.  :)

Perhaps some of these ideas work for you.  Enjoy!!

CREATIVE CARING BY THE MONTH FOR VISITING TEACHERS

Jan: Give your sisters a new calendar
Feb: Red carnation tied w/ ribbon, cloth heart filled w/ candy, a heart pin cushion or a valentine w/ a note expressing your appreciation for your sis
Mar: Basket of “Irish” potatoes or bowl of potato salad
Apr: Give an April Fool’s Day gift (something out of season) or an Easter basket
June: Yellow cake mix, strawberries & whipping cream to make their own short cake
July: Cake decorated like a flag
Aug: Pitcher full of whole lemons & recipe for lemonade
Sept: Corn husk doll dressed from scraps of material
Oct: A tootsie roll pop ghost
Nov: A pumpkin w/ recipe for a treat
Dec: Christmas ornament

The following is a list of more ideas for creative caring that should be helpful in communicating love as a visiting teacher & friend:

  • Give each sis a folder w/ a ward directory in it. On the folder put the phone #s of the Bishop, visiting teachers & home teachers
  • Take your inactive sis a RS lesson manual
  • When traveling, bring your sisters something from the places you visit or send a picture postcard
  • Take your sisters out to lunch, one at a time or all together
  • Check w/ the husband first & then kidnap your sis & take her to your house for a special breakfast
  • Have your sis & her family over to your home for a special FHE
  • Send a card or thought to your sis or give them a phone call just to see how they are & say hello
  • Do something to f/u on the visiting lesson for the month
  • Find out info about your sis: fav flowers, color, music, books & foods. Find out where they were born & raised, places they have lived, etc. Use this info to help you get ideas for things to give & do for your sis
  • Do something special for your sis’ b’day or anniversary
  • If she gave a good lesson in church, talk or something else that was great, compliment them
  • Invite your sis & their fam to your home for dinner or ice cream treat
  • If you know of a good sale or something special, call & let your sis know about it also
  • If a sis isn’t at church, call to see if everything is ok. Let them know what the announcements were & anything special that happened
  • Have a big Un-Birthday party for your sis
  • Teach a mini course, if you know a sis is interested in one of your talents
  • If you have an ill or elderly sis to visit, tape record the RS lesson for her to listen to
  • If you have a new mom or one that doesn’t get out often, offer to baby sit one afternoon while she does what she desires
  • Help a mom have a b’day party for a child
  • You could take some nice homemade bread or one of your fav goodies w/ you (be sure to include the recipe)
  • If there is a sick child, take something for him/her to do
  • Take an inexpensive craft to the mom to use when she needs something to entertain the kids when she is busy
  • In the summer, take popsicles over for the children or take them to the park to play
  • Loan an inspirational book that might uplift your sis in some way, then you can pick it up the next month
  • Take a casserole or a dish that she can freeze for a day when your sis is too busy to cook take cookies (undecorated) & the frosting w/ goodies such as sprinkles for the kids to finish the job
  • Give them plants w/ a note saying, “Let’s grow together”
  • Share some of your best recipes
  • Take her some chilled cookie dough w/ the recipe & baking instructions
  • Make some special place mats or sew an apron
  • Share some veges or fruit from your garden or some you have just canned
  • Give your sis a pic of Jesus, a book mark, novelty pens or scrolls
  • Share your testimony in written form w/ your sis or a note expressing your appreciation & love for them
  • Give them the feeling that you do love them
  • Help them set a goal & then print it nicely on a 3x5 card for them to keep on their mirror or fridge

Written by: Cathy Oyler
Kearns, UT

Tuesday, August 9, 2011

Farewell Adele

Adele, our District #1 Supervisor, has moved.  Bumming news!!  We wish you well in your new adventure Adele!  We'll miss you.  Come back and visit us some time.

This means District #1 VT teachers will have to report your visiting teaching activities to me until another supervisor is called.  Expect reminder emails from me.  :)

Monday, August 1, 2011

Visiting Teaching Message: August 2011


Lucy Mack Smith, the Prophet’s mother, shared the good Relief Society could accomplish: “We must cherish one another, watch over one another, comfort one another and gain instruction, that we may all sit down in heaven together."

The work of Relief Society is holy, and doing holy work creates holiness in us ... A Society of Holy Women is this month's message.

Viva Relief Society!!  Happy visiting teaching dear Sisters!!!

*I apologize for being MIA lately.