Thoughts from the sisters of our ward regarding visiting teaching.
It's about time, huh?! Sorry that this has been MIA for so long. Anyway, get ready to be inspired! Enjoy.
#5 Not dated:
"Visiting teaching is both a joy and a challenge, just like anything that is worthwhile in life. I try not to think about Visiting Teaching as a task to check off the list, but as a chance to personally connect with my sister. It's so easy for me to get caught in the hurried tasks and minutia of everyday life. Visiting teaching is a great opportunity to stop and remember that our relationships with others; the way we love, care for, & serve each other is what truly matters.
If I can somehow help my sisters feel the Spirit, whether by a lesson, a simple visit, or just listening, then I consider that a success. We all will be edified if we seek to serve & love as our Savior taught us to do."
Summer L.
#6 Not dated:
"I believe visiting teaching is an amazing way to strengthen sisters. I know I learn new things every time I teach am taught. It's so fun to bounce ideas off of one another & get new insights & ideas on everything from improving personal scripture study to getting your babies to sleep through the night. As a whole, we've got a lot of wisdom & experience to share. I truly enjoy this privilege of sharing, teaching & helping. The hardest part for me is always setting up the appointment. I think there are parts of it that are hard for all of us. Here again is a wonderful opportunity to grow. Rumor has it that "Visiting Teaching Rocks in R..5th" and I'm going to have to agree with that ... wholeheartedly."
Meg T.
#7 Not dated:
"Visiting teaching is such a wonderfully inspired amazing program. If someone wanted to know who LDS people were, what we stood for and believed and how we were unique, they needn't look any further. Lately 3 people have specifically asked me about the v.t. program and how it works and have desired to be a part of such a sisterhood. That's what it is to me --it's the culture of divine caretaking.
I will always be grateful to wonderful sisters in our ward who have helped me through various medical/pregnancy related issues and truly championed what it means to be a visiting teacher. I've been so touched by both those over me, and by those I get to visit. What on one level may initially feel like an obligation, ?, becomes a wonderful opportunity & blessing in my life."
I stand grateful,
Stephanie F.
#8 Dated 1/16/12:
"Visiting teaching has never meant more to me than when I moved here, into this ward. This was the first time in my life I had moved away from my family. I needed a new family here, and visiting teaching was the perfect way to make that happen. It gave me the opportunity to get to know not only those I visit, but also my companion and those who visit me, on a smaller more personal level. You get to go into someone's home and feel their needs. Visiting teaching helped me settle into my new home here. It helped me feel welcome, and gain some life-long friends. It's not always an easy task to accomplish, but with honest prayer and thought, it is accomplished. I know I always leave with a calm, happy, and peaceful feeling, knowing I learned something great."
Mindee C.
#9 Not dated:
"When I first learned about VT-ing I thought that it was kind of weird (I was a freshman in college in my BYU student ward ..convert), but then they visited me and brought treats everytime, so I decided to give it a chance. It's been 10 years since then and man has my testimony grown. I have learned how necessary VT-ing is, especially when you're staying in tune with the Spirit and are praying for the women you VT. There's been months where I've been too busy and stressed out but I've really tried to make time to VT. It's always those months that I get the most out of VT-ing, either through the lesson, from the women I get to see and visit with, or just from being blessed for doing my calling and serving.
There was one month in college where I was given a new girl to VT. I called her but she insisted it wasn't necessary to visit her because she was moving in a few days. I felt that it was very necessary, so I prepared a lesson and went over anyway. She was very nice and it went well. Didn't think about it much after that, not until a few months later when I saw her at an activity where she was back to visit old friends. She came up to me and thanked me up and down for that one visit. As tears developed in her eyes she shared a huge family problem she'd been having at that time and she expressed how the lesson I gave helped her and answered all questions she had been worrying about. Heavenly Father inspres us to call, visit, and share the right lessons, stories, insight and advice at the perfect times. We need each other, and Heavenly Father needs us to be his instruments to help each other in times of need. This our calling and our way of doing His work."
Love,
Brittany B.
#10 Dated 4/3/12:
"Visiting teaching always seemed like something I would do when I become a grown-up. I knew my Mom did it but I never saw her vt because she did it while all her kiddos were at school. So when it came time for me to be a part of it, I felt a bit overwhelmed. Could I be a friend to two women in my ward? Of course. In fact, I was excited about the prospect of new friendship. I was just worried that I wouldn't know how to help them if they needed it. Would they think I didn't care about them if I didn't visit one month? Plus, who had time to visit teach with all the other demands on time? All these things made me feel like vt was difficult and frustrating. However, I was assigned an amazing companion right off the bat. She made treats, scheduled appointmens, and made sure I took part in the lesson. Eventually, I realized why she was so good at being a visiting teacher: she taught her friends. She wasn't just fulfillng her duty, she really loved our girls. It is so easy to keep in touch, to make treats, and to help those who you consider your friends.
I know that visiting teaching is inspired of God. It is a way for his daughters to bond, to help one another. I am so grateful for a Heavenly Father who makes sure his children are looked after.
I know this Church is true. Jesus Christ suffered for my sins and yours. There is nothing he cannot mend. Broken hearts. Loneliness. The pain of sin. He can help anyone. And I can help too. I can be a friend and maybe even the answer to a prayer through visiting teaching."
Love,
Katie B.